Monday, October 21, 2013
Short Break
Life seems to be getting in the way at the moment. I need to take a short break and deal with a few issues. I promise, I'll be back soon.
Monday, October 14, 2013
New Week, New Plans
Well, this is the first week I'm not planning to go down the mountain twice. I know I didn't last week either but last week my planning involved what to do after a funeral and what to serve for luncheon. This week without the chaos of planning and cleaning, I'm trying to take things a little easier. I've tidied my desk area, so I can hopefully study. And I spent yesterday napping and resting with Music Man who had a touch of the flu. I was kind of hoping he'd still be sick this morning so he could stay home with me again, but sadly he felt better and went to work.
I still have the Grouchy Old Man home during the day. He and Miss Goofy are sanding this morning. I'm kind of glad I'm hiding in my bedroom. However, everyone loved what we're doing to the kitchen and agreed it will look wonderful when we get it done.
I think for this week, I'm going to try and take things a little slowly, spend some time with Miss Goofy and Grouchy and make sure they're doing okay. Otherwise, back to the books and of course prepping for the holidays.
Have a great week and go LIVE!
I still have the Grouchy Old Man home during the day. He and Miss Goofy are sanding this morning. I'm kind of glad I'm hiding in my bedroom. However, everyone loved what we're doing to the kitchen and agreed it will look wonderful when we get it done.
I think for this week, I'm going to try and take things a little slowly, spend some time with Miss Goofy and Grouchy and make sure they're doing okay. Otherwise, back to the books and of course prepping for the holidays.
Have a great week and go LIVE!
Monday, October 7, 2013
Heavy Heart, Happy Memories
It's with a heavy heart that I say Grandma passed away on Friday morning. I'm glad I got to see her on Thursday and I'm glad I had told Miss Goofy that she needed to wait to see Grandma until she looked like she was feeling better. She needs to remember Grandma happy and alive, just as I do.
The funeral is planned for Saturday morning and I'm hoping to speak at it. Sadly this is not the first time I've done this and with any luck it won't be the last. I still have a lot of living to do.
So in trying to think of what to say at the funeral I've been thinking about Grandma and the influence she had on me. All the wonderful times we had. All the laughter and happiness. She was a feisty woman and I hope people will think I inherited some of that.
From my grandmother I learned: 1) life is too short to take it seriously, 2) always tell your loved ones you love them, 3) family is the most important thing in your life, 4) no matter how serious a situation, laughter makes it easier to deal with, 5) history and travel go together and are important, and finally 6) bad grammar will drive you nuts if you let it. ;)
She wasn't perfect but she loved me and was proud of me. The only thing I wish she could have seen was me getting a college degree. However, I will work hard and even though she won't be there in person, I know she'll be there in spirit.
I love you, Grandma. Rest in Peace.
Have a great week and remember, life is short, go live yours!
Tuesday, October 1, 2013
A Day Late But I Had a Good Reason
I know, I was supposed to update yesterday. I may have to change my posting schedule for this blog to Tuesdays for a while.
I do have a good reason for my update being late. I was at the hospital yesterday with Grandma. My uncle needed to run home, shower, change clothes and generally, get out of the hospital for a few minutes. It was kind of cool to spend several hours with Grandma and my sister though.
Grandma slept most of the time, she still hurts some when they turn her onto her side and it breaks my heart to hear her saying "Ow, ow, ow". But she's a tough lady and getting through it.
This last week it's been a challenge to get stuff done but I'm hoping by restarting a daily list of activities I can keep better track of things and stuff like house-cleaning, food prep and general hygiene won't fall by the way side.
I'm still looking forward to going to my writing thing in November. And I'm looking forward to having a bit of time to write. Not sure when that will happen, but I'm sure it will eventually.
Today is day 1 for the government shutdown, which means the grouchy old man will be home, probably around lunchtime, for an indefinite period of time. Yet another reason for a daily activity list. I hope this doesn't last too long, not only is bad for my dad financially and emotionally, cause let's face it, it's a pretty helpless feeling he's going through, but it's also bad for the economy and business. Okay, political rant done.
So, today is just a casual day to get caught up on everything that has gone undone the last few days and weeks. Mostly stuff like vacuuming, dusting and I have a ton of laundry to do today.
I'm going to see Grandma again on Thursday and will update if anything dramatic happens.
Have a great week and go live!
I do have a good reason for my update being late. I was at the hospital yesterday with Grandma. My uncle needed to run home, shower, change clothes and generally, get out of the hospital for a few minutes. It was kind of cool to spend several hours with Grandma and my sister though.
Grandma slept most of the time, she still hurts some when they turn her onto her side and it breaks my heart to hear her saying "Ow, ow, ow". But she's a tough lady and getting through it.
This last week it's been a challenge to get stuff done but I'm hoping by restarting a daily list of activities I can keep better track of things and stuff like house-cleaning, food prep and general hygiene won't fall by the way side.
I'm still looking forward to going to my writing thing in November. And I'm looking forward to having a bit of time to write. Not sure when that will happen, but I'm sure it will eventually.
Today is day 1 for the government shutdown, which means the grouchy old man will be home, probably around lunchtime, for an indefinite period of time. Yet another reason for a daily activity list. I hope this doesn't last too long, not only is bad for my dad financially and emotionally, cause let's face it, it's a pretty helpless feeling he's going through, but it's also bad for the economy and business. Okay, political rant done.
So, today is just a casual day to get caught up on everything that has gone undone the last few days and weeks. Mostly stuff like vacuuming, dusting and I have a ton of laundry to do today.
I'm going to see Grandma again on Thursday and will update if anything dramatic happens.
Have a great week and go live!
Monday, September 23, 2013
My Week in a Blur
That title really pretty much expresses the past week. A whole lot of nothing has gone on.
My grandma is still in the hospital. She was doing better but has regressed a bit. They're not sure what's happening but she's having trouble swallowing. Today they're putting a feeding tube in so, yeah, kind of time for prayers and positive thoughts. I'm going to see her tomorrow.
This morning I have Music Man working from home. Mainly cause his phone has been ringing off the hook since 6:45 this morning when the first crisis hit. It's pretty much been nonstop since then.
Not sure what else to talk about today. It just seems to be one of those days where lots is happening but nothing is happening. So I think I'll end my update here for now. If something happens later, I'll update again.
Have a great week and go live!
My grandma is still in the hospital. She was doing better but has regressed a bit. They're not sure what's happening but she's having trouble swallowing. Today they're putting a feeding tube in so, yeah, kind of time for prayers and positive thoughts. I'm going to see her tomorrow.
This morning I have Music Man working from home. Mainly cause his phone has been ringing off the hook since 6:45 this morning when the first crisis hit. It's pretty much been nonstop since then.
Not sure what else to talk about today. It just seems to be one of those days where lots is happening but nothing is happening. So I think I'll end my update here for now. If something happens later, I'll update again.
Have a great week and go live!
Monday, September 16, 2013
What A Week!
So, it's been a crazy week. Last Monday I was prepared for our water to go off (again) but they pushed it back till Tuesday. It was off for most of Tuesday. That was annoying.
Wednesday, Grandma went to the ER. She's been in pain for weeks and finally my uncle was told to take her to the ER. Probably the wisest choice her doctor could make. The hospital here in my mountain town sent her to city to be looked at by a team of doctors. The hospital they sent her to is one of the best in the nation. They're working to figure out what is wrong and how to fix it. Though her color is getting better and her spirits are improving.
Thursday I had to be in the city for a test for school, (I passed, yay me!) so I went by in the afternoon to visit with Grandma. I'm pretty proud of that pass since previously I would have fallen apart and not been able to do anything knowing Grandma was in the hospital. The fact that I went ahead and not only took the test but passed tells me how much better I am doing.
Friday was one of those days I don't really remember. I think it went fine. I think the water was off again.
Saturday Music Man changed the serpentine belt and oil in the car. It's running much better now. Poor car. It's run so well for so long. Then we went and did the grocery shopping I needed to get done.
Sunday we goofed off and relaxed most of the day. Then we discovered yet again the water was off. This game has gotten old. When the water finally came on last night, it was full of dirt and mud. I so love this game. Oh wait, no I don't.
So for today, I'm prepared for the water to go off again, I'm sure there's a problem somewhere they need to fix. I'm hoping to hear a definitive answer on what's wrong with Grandma. And I'm starting a new class for school This one will be a little bit of everything and will include another certification. Oh that's the other thing about Saturday. CompTIA posted my certification. So now, you can go to the website and verify that I'm certified in Project +. Kind of cool.
Off to study and possibly clean my desk. It's a mess.
Have a great week and go live your life!
Wednesday, Grandma went to the ER. She's been in pain for weeks and finally my uncle was told to take her to the ER. Probably the wisest choice her doctor could make. The hospital here in my mountain town sent her to city to be looked at by a team of doctors. The hospital they sent her to is one of the best in the nation. They're working to figure out what is wrong and how to fix it. Though her color is getting better and her spirits are improving.
Thursday I had to be in the city for a test for school, (I passed, yay me!) so I went by in the afternoon to visit with Grandma. I'm pretty proud of that pass since previously I would have fallen apart and not been able to do anything knowing Grandma was in the hospital. The fact that I went ahead and not only took the test but passed tells me how much better I am doing.
Friday was one of those days I don't really remember. I think it went fine. I think the water was off again.
Saturday Music Man changed the serpentine belt and oil in the car. It's running much better now. Poor car. It's run so well for so long. Then we went and did the grocery shopping I needed to get done.
Sunday we goofed off and relaxed most of the day. Then we discovered yet again the water was off. This game has gotten old. When the water finally came on last night, it was full of dirt and mud. I so love this game. Oh wait, no I don't.
So for today, I'm prepared for the water to go off again, I'm sure there's a problem somewhere they need to fix. I'm hoping to hear a definitive answer on what's wrong with Grandma. And I'm starting a new class for school This one will be a little bit of everything and will include another certification. Oh that's the other thing about Saturday. CompTIA posted my certification. So now, you can go to the website and verify that I'm certified in Project +. Kind of cool.
Off to study and possibly clean my desk. It's a mess.
Have a great week and go live your life!
Monday, September 9, 2013
Holy Crap It's An On Time Update!
As I write this I'm listening to Shaggy's "It Wasn't Me" so please keep in mind this post should be read while grooving.
So, let's start with the most recent happenings and go backward. Maybe I can reconstruct it in my mind then.
I went over and stayed with Grandma for about an hour and half while grocery shopping was accomplished by my uncle and cousin. She was fairly cheerful and even smiled at me. She's hurting a lot right now and hopefully the doctor will have some answers this week.
Saturday, we rested. And by rested I mean took a really long nap.
Friday we didn't have water after about 10:30. Nearly 13 hours later, it was back on. Seriously, if anyone knows how to handle this stuff for a trailer park, message me and I'll contact you for more info.
Thursday. What happened on Thursday? Hmm, oh, right I spent Wednesday and Thursday anticipating the water going off for three hours cause that's the day and times the notices gave. Never went off. 10:30 Friday morning it's off. No notice for Friday, and when I called at 3 in the afternoon the manager told me an hour or an hour and a half. Last time I checked 11 at night was 8 hours later.
Wednesday I decided to start walking in anticipation of the Night of Writing Dangerously. So, I'm feeling pretty good about that decision. I took the weekend off in hopes of letting my body heal a bit. Seemed to work, I feel pretty good today after my walk. I didn't walk as far as I did on Friday but I got out and did it.
I don't really remember before Wednesday so I'll just stop there.
Coming up this week, I have my first certification test. No I'm not ready as of today but I plan to be by Thursday morning at 10.
I plan to walk everyday this week and I even plan to add in yoga and squats. Oh yeah, I'm tired of being well, fat.
And I'm hoping this week's weigh-in will include a weight loss instead of a gain.
Have a great week and I'll blog more on Wednesday on my Schooling blog.
So, let's start with the most recent happenings and go backward. Maybe I can reconstruct it in my mind then.
I went over and stayed with Grandma for about an hour and half while grocery shopping was accomplished by my uncle and cousin. She was fairly cheerful and even smiled at me. She's hurting a lot right now and hopefully the doctor will have some answers this week.
Saturday, we rested. And by rested I mean took a really long nap.
Friday we didn't have water after about 10:30. Nearly 13 hours later, it was back on. Seriously, if anyone knows how to handle this stuff for a trailer park, message me and I'll contact you for more info.
Thursday. What happened on Thursday? Hmm, oh, right I spent Wednesday and Thursday anticipating the water going off for three hours cause that's the day and times the notices gave. Never went off. 10:30 Friday morning it's off. No notice for Friday, and when I called at 3 in the afternoon the manager told me an hour or an hour and a half. Last time I checked 11 at night was 8 hours later.
Wednesday I decided to start walking in anticipation of the Night of Writing Dangerously. So, I'm feeling pretty good about that decision. I took the weekend off in hopes of letting my body heal a bit. Seemed to work, I feel pretty good today after my walk. I didn't walk as far as I did on Friday but I got out and did it.
I don't really remember before Wednesday so I'll just stop there.
Coming up this week, I have my first certification test. No I'm not ready as of today but I plan to be by Thursday morning at 10.
I plan to walk everyday this week and I even plan to add in yoga and squats. Oh yeah, I'm tired of being well, fat.
And I'm hoping this week's weigh-in will include a weight loss instead of a gain.
Have a great week and I'll blog more on Wednesday on my Schooling blog.
Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Updates on Mondays...Yeah Right
This is still a more frequent post than you're used to, right?
So, what's new in my neck of the woods?
Well, Grandma is still having knee issues. Hopefully we'll hear an update soon and will know how to proceed. Love that woman to pieces, but getting her to drink enough water is a battle!
Let's see what else? Oh, thanks to some incredible donations, I have achieved my fundraising goal and have submitted my RSVP for the Night of Writing Dangerously. I'm super excited to be doing this and am very much looking forward to November. I definitely need to start planning out a story to work on in November cause now that I've won NaNoWriMo once, I'll be damned if I don't keep doing it.
Had a lovely spur of the moment weekend away with Music Man. It was heavenly. We spent a lot of time snuggled up and chatting. We even managed to get a 3 hour nap in. It was awesome.
Oh, I know the other big news. We started to remodel our kitchen. We took out a wall and it's really opened the room. Now the living, former dining and kitchen are all airy and open. I'm looking forward to getting it done. I'll have to post pictures next week.
Well, I think that's all the news for now. Keep Grandma in your thoughts and prayers.
Have a great week!
So, what's new in my neck of the woods?
Well, Grandma is still having knee issues. Hopefully we'll hear an update soon and will know how to proceed. Love that woman to pieces, but getting her to drink enough water is a battle!
Let's see what else? Oh, thanks to some incredible donations, I have achieved my fundraising goal and have submitted my RSVP for the Night of Writing Dangerously. I'm super excited to be doing this and am very much looking forward to November. I definitely need to start planning out a story to work on in November cause now that I've won NaNoWriMo once, I'll be damned if I don't keep doing it.
Had a lovely spur of the moment weekend away with Music Man. It was heavenly. We spent a lot of time snuggled up and chatting. We even managed to get a 3 hour nap in. It was awesome.
Oh, I know the other big news. We started to remodel our kitchen. We took out a wall and it's really opened the room. Now the living, former dining and kitchen are all airy and open. I'm looking forward to getting it done. I'll have to post pictures next week.
Well, I think that's all the news for now. Keep Grandma in your thoughts and prayers.
Have a great week!
Monday, August 12, 2013
My Life Since Friday
Okay, so on Friday, I decided I would stay updating this blog, and two others, one for weight loss and for school. This morning, I actually remembered I needed to update this blog. Yay for me!
Not a lot has really happened since Friday but I've decided that I will start telling the story of my 27 month journey through temporary insanity. Otherwise known as: The Time I Lost My Mind and Moved To Oklahoma. Not today though. I'll start that story next week. This week, I wanted to update on what I'm planning to write in future updates. Try saying that three times fast. Okay, not really it was way more of a challenge in my brain to write that sentence than to say it out loud.
Changing the subject now.
July 20th, my sister and her husband came through my mountain town on their way to Vegas. We decided to meet up and have breakfast at Denny's. It was about 6:30 when Music Man and I picked up my grandma and took her with us. The Grumpy Old Man, (aka technically my stepfather, but I've called him Dad for years) and Miss Goofy had gone ahead of us and gotten a table for the seven of us. We were all pretty excited.
Shortly before 7, Sissy (in some adorable shoes, by the way) and her hubby, insert clever nickname here, arrived. We ate and chatted all of us excited to get to see each other as it had been quite a while since Sissy had been able to see Grandma and The Grumpy Old Man. Grandma laughed a lot and was quite happy to see everyone. Sissy giggled with me, Grandma and Miss Goofy. Fun was had by all.
That got us thinking though and we made a decision and vow to start having Grandma over for breakfast on weekends. Just a fun way to have her over so she gets out of the house for a bit and we get to check on her and see how she's doing. She's come over 2 weekends now. The first weekend after Sissy's visit we were busy and didn't have a chance to have her over. Weekend before last, Miss Goofy and I spent all day Saturday cooking and weren't up to making breakfast on Sunday. So twice we've had her over and plan to have her over this weekend too. I'll try to remember to take some pictures.
I love the fact that she's just five or six houses down from me. She takes a walk nearly everyday and at least once a week, she walks up to my house just to check in and say hi. I love that she's close enough to do that. It makes my heart so happy. She is a treasure and one I don't think I properly appreciated until I was 1400 miles away. I missed her greatly and I'm extremely thankful I'm back home where I can spend time with her.
I know there's lots more news but this post is getting a bit long and I frankly, I have schoolwork to do.
More updates next week, including The Time I Lost My Mind and Moved To Oklahoma, part 1.
Not a lot has really happened since Friday but I've decided that I will start telling the story of my 27 month journey through temporary insanity. Otherwise known as: The Time I Lost My Mind and Moved To Oklahoma. Not today though. I'll start that story next week. This week, I wanted to update on what I'm planning to write in future updates. Try saying that three times fast. Okay, not really it was way more of a challenge in my brain to write that sentence than to say it out loud.
Changing the subject now.
July 20th, my sister and her husband came through my mountain town on their way to Vegas. We decided to meet up and have breakfast at Denny's. It was about 6:30 when Music Man and I picked up my grandma and took her with us. The Grumpy Old Man, (aka technically my stepfather, but I've called him Dad for years) and Miss Goofy had gone ahead of us and gotten a table for the seven of us. We were all pretty excited.
Shortly before 7, Sissy (in some adorable shoes, by the way) and her hubby, insert clever nickname here, arrived. We ate and chatted all of us excited to get to see each other as it had been quite a while since Sissy had been able to see Grandma and The Grumpy Old Man. Grandma laughed a lot and was quite happy to see everyone. Sissy giggled with me, Grandma and Miss Goofy. Fun was had by all.
That got us thinking though and we made a decision and vow to start having Grandma over for breakfast on weekends. Just a fun way to have her over so she gets out of the house for a bit and we get to check on her and see how she's doing. She's come over 2 weekends now. The first weekend after Sissy's visit we were busy and didn't have a chance to have her over. Weekend before last, Miss Goofy and I spent all day Saturday cooking and weren't up to making breakfast on Sunday. So twice we've had her over and plan to have her over this weekend too. I'll try to remember to take some pictures.
I love the fact that she's just five or six houses down from me. She takes a walk nearly everyday and at least once a week, she walks up to my house just to check in and say hi. I love that she's close enough to do that. It makes my heart so happy. She is a treasure and one I don't think I properly appreciated until I was 1400 miles away. I missed her greatly and I'm extremely thankful I'm back home where I can spend time with her.
I know there's lots more news but this post is getting a bit long and I frankly, I have schoolwork to do.
More updates next week, including The Time I Lost My Mind and Moved To Oklahoma, part 1.
Friday, August 9, 2013
NaNoWriMo and My Story
I had a lot happen in my childhood. Don't worry this isn't a crying session, this is a post about healing.
After my dad passed away, I was terrified. Who was going to protect me from the world? My strong Daddy was gone and I was left all alone. Okay, I had my mom, who was incredibly strong. And my sister, who I love dearly cause she's always supporting me. And my grandparents, who have always loved me unconditionally. So there were a lot of people who would protect me. At nearly 13 I couldn't really see that though.
I started having problems with school attendance in 2nd grade. Not a story I'm going to get into here, but it did start way before my dad passed, with time it only got worse.
At 13, I remember my mom driving me to school and parking. I remember taking a deep breath and getting out of the car. I remember walking to the front of the car and not being able to force myself to cross the street to go to school. I remember feeling panicked and like if I didn't go back home, something awful would happen. I remember being so afraid to leave the house, I couldn't walk out the door.
It's gotten worse over the years. I try so hard to get out and do things. Some days it's easy and like nothing bad ever happened. Some days though, it's like just stepping outside to check to see if it's hot is more than I can handle. I don't know why this happens or when it's going to, I just know some days, I can't go anywhere.
The more time I have to prepare for an event, the worse I get. That's why I'm sharing this now.
NaNoWriMo takes place in November. NaNoWriMo is an acronym for National Novel Writing Month. You spend the month of November writing a novel or 50,000 words. It's something I'd wanted to participate in for several years. Last November I did. Not only did I participate, I was a winner. I wrote more than 50,000 words in the month of November. It was hard work. It required a lot of time and thought. It was one of the most rewarding moments of my life when I hit the 50,000 word mark.
Recently, I got an email inviting me to participate in a fundraising event for the non-profit that puts on NaNoWriMo. All the money raised from this event goes to The Office of Letters and Light, the parent non-profit that does NaNoWriMo. This is a great non-profit that helps bring writing programs to schools and to adults. It's making a huge difference in my life as it has in many other people's lives.
I'm raising $350 so that I can go in November to San Francisco for a six hour writing event. Last year there were over 200 people who went. There are panels with published authors and publishers. There's food and drinks. There's raffle prizes. But most of all there's people. Lots of people. It's a wonderful networking opportunity but again, lots of people.
I'm terrified. I can do this, I know I can. But it's going to take a lot of strength to go to this event. I have a good support system and am very blessed. Yet still terrified.
This is the link to donate if you have the ability: Send Micki to The City.
If you can't donate money, but want to encourage me, go ahead and leave me a message in the comments.
Thanks for all the support!
After my dad passed away, I was terrified. Who was going to protect me from the world? My strong Daddy was gone and I was left all alone. Okay, I had my mom, who was incredibly strong. And my sister, who I love dearly cause she's always supporting me. And my grandparents, who have always loved me unconditionally. So there were a lot of people who would protect me. At nearly 13 I couldn't really see that though.
I started having problems with school attendance in 2nd grade. Not a story I'm going to get into here, but it did start way before my dad passed, with time it only got worse.
At 13, I remember my mom driving me to school and parking. I remember taking a deep breath and getting out of the car. I remember walking to the front of the car and not being able to force myself to cross the street to go to school. I remember feeling panicked and like if I didn't go back home, something awful would happen. I remember being so afraid to leave the house, I couldn't walk out the door.
It's gotten worse over the years. I try so hard to get out and do things. Some days it's easy and like nothing bad ever happened. Some days though, it's like just stepping outside to check to see if it's hot is more than I can handle. I don't know why this happens or when it's going to, I just know some days, I can't go anywhere.
The more time I have to prepare for an event, the worse I get. That's why I'm sharing this now.
NaNoWriMo takes place in November. NaNoWriMo is an acronym for National Novel Writing Month. You spend the month of November writing a novel or 50,000 words. It's something I'd wanted to participate in for several years. Last November I did. Not only did I participate, I was a winner. I wrote more than 50,000 words in the month of November. It was hard work. It required a lot of time and thought. It was one of the most rewarding moments of my life when I hit the 50,000 word mark.
Recently, I got an email inviting me to participate in a fundraising event for the non-profit that puts on NaNoWriMo. All the money raised from this event goes to The Office of Letters and Light, the parent non-profit that does NaNoWriMo. This is a great non-profit that helps bring writing programs to schools and to adults. It's making a huge difference in my life as it has in many other people's lives.
I'm raising $350 so that I can go in November to San Francisco for a six hour writing event. Last year there were over 200 people who went. There are panels with published authors and publishers. There's food and drinks. There's raffle prizes. But most of all there's people. Lots of people. It's a wonderful networking opportunity but again, lots of people.
I'm terrified. I can do this, I know I can. But it's going to take a lot of strength to go to this event. I have a good support system and am very blessed. Yet still terrified.
This is the link to donate if you have the ability: Send Micki to The City.
If you can't donate money, but want to encourage me, go ahead and leave me a message in the comments.
Thanks for all the support!
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
How I Know I Have the Best Husband Ever
I have the best husband in the world. And I know some of you will argue your husband is better but before we get into the debate, I'd like to lay out my reasons for thinking he's the best.
- He makes me coffee in the morning and frequently I don't even have to ask.
- Why it matters: I don't always want coffee. He always asks and if I seem undecided, he makes it for me anyway. Then if I don't want coffee, he doesn't get mad
- He calls me when he's leaving work.
- Why it matters: Right now we have one working vehicle. He calls to ask if I need anything from the store. If I do he always cheerfully picks it up and brings it home. If I don't then he still happily comes home to me.
- The other reason it matters: He knows I like to have dinner about ready for him when he gets home. By calling me, I know whether to slow dinner down or speed it up.
- He calls me from work and/or IM's with me throughout the day.
- Why it matters: I know this would annoy the crud out of some women but he's not just my husband, he's also my best friend. We chat and tease each other all day long. If one of us is having a rough day, the other is there to life them up. I can always count on him to lift my spirits.
- He works. Hard. Frequently at a job he doesn't really like.
- Why it matters: I'm a stay at home wife and we both really like that. He supports us financially. And while occasionally things are tight, and it would be much easier if I worked too, he never asks me to get a job. If I wanted to work outside our home, he'd support my decision and would do whatever I needed to help out but he'd never ask me to.
- When I'm having a precursor to a bad day as described in a previous post, he comes home, hugs me, tells me he loves me and kisses me.
- Why it matters: He's ready to be loving and affectionate no matter how cranky or snarly I am. And when that bad day finally materializes? He holds me while I cry and not only tells me it's okay, but makes me believe it too.
- No matter what I do or say, he's there.
- Why it matters: I'm not an easy person to live with. I accept that about myself. So does he. Enough said about that.
- His values are the same as mine.
- Why it matters: Although it may sometimes seem that work is a priority to him, that's not true. Family is the priority and that sometimes means he puts what he wants to do aside, so he can provide for me. He put his desire to move to Oklahoma on hold for eleven years because of familial obligations. Before we moved, he asked me if I needed to stay longer.
- He lets me hold the remote.
- Why it matters: I have control issues. He knows that and while he occasionally holds the remote to annoy me, he frequently lets me hold it. In return, I try to turn on things I know he likes to watch.
- He senses my mood and changes his behavior accordingly.
- Why it matters: Notice I didn't say he does whatever it takes to appease me. I said he changes his behavior. Sometimes that means making me angry until I blow up. I feel better afterward though. Sometimes it means talking about things that hurt me until I cry. Though after a good cry with him holding me, I feel refreshed and don't hurt. Sometimes it means teasing me until I lighten up and laugh. I think that's self explanatory.
- He encourages the child in me to come out and play.
- Why it matters: I have fond memories of my childhood. I also have terrible memories of my childhood. At times I grew up way too fast. He lets me be the little girl I didn't always get to be.
- He does chores around the house.
- Why it matters: I'm not always the best housekeeper and I know it. However, he is always more than willing to help me out and do what he can around the house. If I ask him to do something he does it. Not the way I would but it gets done and really isn't that what matters?
- He loves me when I'm happy and childlike, he loves me when I'm on the warpath, he loves me when I collapse in tears. He loves me.
- Why it matters: His love is unconditional. I feel accepted and cherished.
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Facebook Status
This was my facebook status at one point today:
Did you know that the people that seem the strongest are usually the most sensitive? Did you know the one who takes care of others all the time is usually the one that needs it the most? ~ Did you know the 3 hardest things to say are: I love you, I'm sorry and Help me? Put this as your status if you agree...Not easy huh?
This was an especially poignant status for me. It was posted by my cousin Lynn. (*waves into cyberspace "Hi Lynn")
It reminded me a lot of my mother. She spent a lot of time taking care of me, my sister, my dad when he was sick, and even my grandparents. She took so much on and it was so hard for her to say she needed help. I wish she had said a little more often. I know she felt like she didn't have any other choice, if she didn't do it who would?
I do wonder if she would have lived longer if she'd asked for help more often, instead of always shouldering the load alone. I have a tendency to do the same thing but I also tend to fall apart and ask for help. I have a wonderful husband and daughter who usually know I'm about to crumble about three days before I do. They spend those three days poking at me. Not trying to help, not trying to get me to open up about whatever is stressing me out. Poking at me. It sends me over the edge, I cry, I get mad, I stop talking to them. I generally behave like an idiot.
And then I do what I should have done all along and talk to them. I am getting better about it. I'm learning to talk before they start poking me. I'm learning when they start poking it's time to figure out what's wrong and try to fix it rather than contemplating carrying around a rolling pin to bash over their heads.
Basically, I'm a work in progress. And that's okay. As long as I'm working on it.
So the next time a family member, a friend, a loved one is being incredibly strong, taking care of everyone else, maybe just reach out and take care of them for a minute. Offer a hug, make them dinner, sit with a sick relative or just pray for them. You'd be surprised what a difference you might make.
Did you know that the people that seem the strongest are usually the most sensitive? Did you know the one who takes care of others all the time is usually the one that needs it the most? ~ Did you know the 3 hardest things to say are: I love you, I'm sorry and Help me? Put this as your status if you agree...Not easy huh?
This was an especially poignant status for me. It was posted by my cousin Lynn. (*waves into cyberspace "Hi Lynn")
It reminded me a lot of my mother. She spent a lot of time taking care of me, my sister, my dad when he was sick, and even my grandparents. She took so much on and it was so hard for her to say she needed help. I wish she had said a little more often. I know she felt like she didn't have any other choice, if she didn't do it who would?
I do wonder if she would have lived longer if she'd asked for help more often, instead of always shouldering the load alone. I have a tendency to do the same thing but I also tend to fall apart and ask for help. I have a wonderful husband and daughter who usually know I'm about to crumble about three days before I do. They spend those three days poking at me. Not trying to help, not trying to get me to open up about whatever is stressing me out. Poking at me. It sends me over the edge, I cry, I get mad, I stop talking to them. I generally behave like an idiot.
And then I do what I should have done all along and talk to them. I am getting better about it. I'm learning to talk before they start poking me. I'm learning when they start poking it's time to figure out what's wrong and try to fix it rather than contemplating carrying around a rolling pin to bash over their heads.
Basically, I'm a work in progress. And that's okay. As long as I'm working on it.
So the next time a family member, a friend, a loved one is being incredibly strong, taking care of everyone else, maybe just reach out and take care of them for a minute. Offer a hug, make them dinner, sit with a sick relative or just pray for them. You'd be surprised what a difference you might make.
Monday, August 29, 2011
Quiz Answers
So how did you like the quiz? I know it was a challenge but I did say it was obscure lyric Saturday. Don't be discouraged if you had trouble, no one got all the songs. I'm looking at ideas for the next one. Some of them include a single artist and multiple choice for the answers. If you have any thoughts or suggestions please send them my way.
Okay so the way these songs were chosen was I put my entire iTunes library on shuffle and pushed play. After filtering out music without vocals, these were the first 20 songs that played.
And now for the answers:
1. Talk about stacked. They're both chrome.
"Hello, I'm a Truck" by Red Simpson
2. You got to grab onto my belt if you wanna be free.
"Love Injection" by Bang Tango
3. There's an old man sitting next to me, making love to his tonic and gin.
"Piano Man" by Billy Joel
4. Can I take you out to the picture show?
"Maxwell's Silver Hammer" by The Beatles
5. Where was the passion when you need it the most?
"Bad Day" by Daniel Powter
6. Don't let this old gold cross in this Crimson Tide t-shirt throw ya
"Southern Voice" by Tim McGraw
7. Isn't it nice to know good will conquer evil?
"No One Mourns the Wicked" by Kristen Chenoweth, from the musical "Wicked"
8. And right now they're building a coffin your size
"Mama" by My Chemical Romance
9. Burn through Mississippi with the Big Easy on my mind
"New Orleans" by Kid Rock
10. I'm your dream, make it real. I'm your eyes when you must steal
"Sad but True" by Metallica
11. Turn off the lights and I'll glow
"Ice Ice Baby" by Vanilla Ice
12. And I've made myself a world and it's worked so perfectly
"Shameless" by Billy Joel (he wrote the song and recorded it 2 years before Garth Brooks recorded it)
13. You're crying me a river but I've got to get across
"The Other Side" by Aerosmith
14. Those seven deadly sins are wicked for sure, Jack's got those plus eleven more!
"Black Jack Slim's Cutthroat Inn" by The Jolly Rogers
15. You believe but what you see, you receive but what you give
"Amaranth" by Nightwish
16. Your jokes ain't funny and there's nothing you say that I wanna hear
"Get the F*ck Out" by Skid Row
17. A tongue as sharp as a razor but she had a fancy car
"Helmethead" by Great Big Sea
18. You can kiss me with the windows open while the rain comes pouring inside
"This Kiss" by Faith Hill
19. I'll push his love far away from me
"We Can Be Together" by Debbie Gibson
20. I stayed the cold day with a lonely satellite
"New Moon on Monday" by Duran Duran.
Saturday, August 27, 2011
A Quiz
It's obscure song lyric Saturday!
I've put together a little quiz just for fun. Here's how it works.
I've enabled comment modification, so I have to approve the comment before it posts. You can comment anonymously if you want. Try not to look up the lyrics, that spoils the fun. I'll post a phrase from a song, it could be any genre. You tell me the song title and if you can, the original artist, though artist is not required. Quiz will run until Monday at noon Pacific time. Ready? Here we go:
1. Talk about stacked. They're both chrome.
2. You got to grab onto my belt if you wanna be free.
3. There's an old man sitting next to me, making love to his tonic and gin.
4. Can I take you out to the picture show?
5. Where was the passion when you need it the most?
6. Don't let this old gold cross in this Crimson Tide t-shirt throw ya
7. Isn't it nice to know that good will conquer evil?
8. And right now they're building a coffin your size.
9. Burn through Mississippi with the Big Easy on my mind.
10. I'm your dream, make you real. I'm your eyes when you must steal
11. Turn off the lights and I'll glow
12. And I've made myself a world and it's worked so perfectly
13. You're crying me a river and I've got to get across
14. Those seven deadly sins are wicked for sure, Jack's got those plus 11 more!
15. You believe but what you see, you receive but what you get.
16. Your jokes ain't funny and there's nothing you say that I wanna hear
17. A tongue as sharp as razor but she had a fancy car
18. You can kiss me with the windows open while the rain comes pouring inside
19. I'll push his love far away from me
20. I stayed the cold day with a lonely satellite
Post your answers as comments. I'll post all the comments after the quiz ends on Monday at noon Pacific time.
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
OMG, I'm Boring Even Me
So I just perused some of my previous posts and realized, I'm even boring myself. And who could blame me with gems like the one llllooooonnnnnggggg paragraph about The Chowder and this rambling post about the woes of our air conditioning.
I am now contemplating what to do about said boring of you my poor innocent readers. (I'm supposed to be cleaning out a cabinet right now. Shh! Don't tell Music Man.)
After long and careful thought, I've decided what I really need is change. And way less clutter. So in my attempts to have both. I shall be further boring you with before and after pictures as I declutter my home and hopefully change the way I feel about my life right now.
You see I miss California and while moving here was an adventure, (Thanks a lot Mom for forever attaching the word adventure to the word move in my mind) I'm just not entirely sure I like adventure. I think part of my melancholy and absenteeism from the world has to do with my missing of palm trees and rain falling in the winter, not the summer.
It really is odd to me how similar my new home and my old one are. A lot of the same stores and restaurants are here. The management company of my apartment complex owns property in California. Miss Goofy is still goofy and still works hard to not do her schoolwork (I think I might know where she gets the procrastination bug from), Music Man hates his job just like he did in California, I'm still trying to figure out what I want to do when I become a grownup, though I do have a better idea about this one than I used to.
And then weird things happen. Like it rains in July. It's not supposed to rain in July. Or and this one was strange for entirely different reasons. You have to have a permit to set off fireworks. I'm from the land of wild fires, I have no issue with not setting off fireworks at all. I am totally okay with going and sitting in a parking lot to watch someone else set them off. But you have to have a permit? And it's not like you have to go to a class to learn safe handling of fireworks, no you just have to pay a fee.
Our city doesn't allow fireworks, not that it stopped some of my neighbors, and I have to say, I for one am kind of glad. Having grown up around the threat of wildfires, I don't have as much of a problem with no fireworks as people who didn't grow up that way. Besides, nowadays, the fireworks suck.
Remember sparklers? Remember stepping on the hot metal stick and burning your feet cause you were barefoot even though your mother told you to put on shoes? Remember learning not to just drop the sparkler but putting it in the bucket? That was part of the fun of fireworks. Remember hearing about the kid who blew half his arm off because he was playing with fireworks without parental supervision? That was an important lesson to those of us who didn't do that. We learned by hearing our parents talk of the dangers that we needed to listen or bad stuff would happen and it would be our own fault. Now we sue the company who made the fireworks cause Mommy and Daddy are too busy getting high to watch their kids and make sure they don't try to see what will happen to GI Joe if we attach a rocket to his back.
Wow, I really need to quit watching Christopher Titus and go clean out my bathroom cabinet.
I'll post before and after pictures eventually.
Saturday, June 25, 2011
The Many Faces of Music Man
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Lately I've Been...
Bet you thought I'd forgotten all about you! And this exciting list!
Never fear, although I frequently get distracted by streaking cats and bright shiny things, I also eventually come back to doing what I started six years ago. Not that my blog is six years old but can you imagine if it was?
Twenty minutes later
So, I seem to have gone off into a fantasy land. What was I saying again?
Oh yeah, my list for this...week?
- Watching my cat randomly streak from room to room and then stop to lick his paw
- Laundry (duh, I have these wonderful new toys)
- Hugging my sissy who I got to see for the first time in over a year last Friday
- Scratching flea bites (I am so bombing the apartment this weekend)
- Asking Miss Goofy if her schoolwork is done yet and why she hasn't turned it in to me
- Finding really good Mexican food (happy dance!)
- Melting in the heat and humidity
- Laughing at Miss Goofy who keeps kicking the fan in my room and then saying, "Ow! I keep kicking that stupid fan!"
- Playing Zynga games on facebook
- Procrastinating instead of doing any housework
I know I've done more stuff, I just can't remember what it was. It kind of reminds me of a essay thing I read about how busy a person was all day but when they look around they can't see what they've done cause nothing they set out to do was finished. Yeah, that's me.
Well, I have things to do that I'll probably avoid and instead spend my time watching shiny butterflies out the window or watching the cat to time how long he goes between scratches. You know something completely and totally beneficial to my life.
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Friday, May 27, 2011
Laundry Saga Update
So today, eventually, maintenance finally came by the apartment. They have to order a part for the water valve in the laundry room.
He did, however, say it was okay to go ahead and use the machine for the weekend since it wasn't leaking much by this evening and any leaking it did do was back down the drain anyway. And he did fix the dryer vent issue. At least for now. They will have to tear apart a piece of the wall to fix the water valve issue as they have to replace the whole thing.
That being said, I have now washed three loads of laundry, dried two, have the third in now and Miss Goofy washed and dried a load. I have at least two more loads of clothes, one of sheets and one of towels and table linens to do tomorrow. I'm just so excited to have this wonderful tool for completing my household chores. It makes it so nice!
Well, I have to go fold towels now! It's so nice not having to go to the laundry room!
Thursday, May 26, 2011
Aren't They Beautiful?
So here is my wonderful anniversary gift from my wonderful husband! No more lugging laundry to the laundry room of the complex! No more laundromat!
I'd love them even more if the water valve for the washer wasn't leaking and the hose that's built into the building for dryer exhaust wasn't too short! Hopefully maintenance will be here early to fix the issues and I can use my new beautiful machines. I love them so much! And that bookshelf is totally coming out of there later tonight!
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